quoted or indirectly quoted someone who said : The degree of self deception is astounding. A young man came to me furious I had given him HIV. I had told him when we first met I was HIV+. I did not have love with him. I had given him a mbuttage. It turned out now he was married, a big surprise to me, and terrified he had also given HIV to his wife. He insisted I was the only possible route, presumably though my hands. I explained it is simply is not pbutted that way and that my viral load was undetectably low on top of that and that I had no cuts or scratches on my hands. Eventually he confessed to unsafe love some years ago, but somehow felt it did not count because he was in India at the time and it was not all that loveually exciting. The essential problem is Darwinian evolution makes EXTINCT people who don't take big risks to get love. The rational mind is no match for the unconscious love drive. That is why he excuses give when they are infected sound so lame. It is easy when you are old and your hormone fires are down to the embers to laugh at those whose testosterone leads them around like bull with a nose ring. -- "It is not necessary to change. Survival is not mandatory." ~ W. Edwards Deming
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