I don't think name calling is going to help in any way at all. So it's best to refer to them by their proper race names and minority groups instead of words which only show your own bias against them. Jackbuttes appear in all cultures and races, etc - it is the way people behave that define who they are, what type of person they are - and not what they appear to be on the outside. In New Zealand over 90% are from elsewhere - and even the so called natives here, emigrated here. I think there were 2 races here, and one practically wiped out the other, and the remaining natives were at war with each other - this story is the same everywhere else. And those who think the Greeks and whatever other civilisation were 'cultured' - they were barbaric as well. And so the people you speak out against - are probably quite nice, really, compared to your own history? I'm just guessing - mind -. Until you really know them, from inside their community - you don't know them at all. Yeah - blasting away their music at the wrong hours - is not to be done, in any culture - as everyone needs their basics for living - which includes sleeping. This neighbour is a stereotype of her generation - a teenage mum who seems to think she knows everything, same with her friends who hang out with her. If there's an ounce of intelligence in her? She'll wake up to the fact - what she and her friends are doing - is wrong. They can do their group thing - elsewhere - or better yet, go to bed, when everyone is asleep. Her children are asleep - so why doesn't she? I don't mind going to court, or to some mediator (3rd person) -- which will only show how silly she and her friends are being. It'll only show how bad a rolemodel she is for her children, with this silly carrying on. I'm not asking anything unreasonable from her - just dead quiet - which happens every night for the rest of the week. I don't want my weekend nights disturbed, while she and her friends natter until the small hours, outside my bedroom - smoke. I would probably let it go, if it was just quiet conversations going on - and not raised voices and other noises going on - car stereo, honking and car(s) driving away. I believe the term would be 'disturbing the peace' literally - specificially my peace and quiet. I don't disturb her at all - so should I have to put up with her bad manners and that of her friends - who she won't ask to keep quiet. And she seems to think - that because she pays the rent there? She can do what she likes to do... She is responsible for her own actions and that of her friends - who she lets onto her property. I'm willing to talk to her mother about this issue - so that her mother can talk sense to her, but she doesn't want me to do that. Of course, her mother would take my side - as anyone else would... You don't disturb someone else's sleep - who goes to bed at a reasonable hour. You should move to a better neighbourhood, if you don't like the people around you. I can't do that. Where I am, the sections of houses are very small, and the houses are right next to each other. Noise is easily a problem in this particular area. Kids don't know this, being just kids. Adults should know this, but those friends of my neighbours probably don't have the intelligence to know this? People with loud stereos in their cars - I think lack the intelligence to spend their money wisely. Most of the neighbours here are alright - although I have filed complaints against someone across the street - and my other neighbour has been similarly bad. I really hate the crappy sequencer junk, with their subwoofers on very loud. Anyone who likes that kind of music, must be on drugs (to enhance their drug experience) or likewise quite mad. But a lot current music is pretty crappy of the current generation. Those low frequency highly repebreastive sounds, just goes right through houses. They certainly give me a very genuine headache. Harvey Noisy Neighbour from Hell 603Wow, this is interesting! You're in New Zealand, aren't you? What kinda neighbors are these? I mean, their race and all. 'Cause... don't
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